Married couples who have regular nights out together report higher levels of relationship quality and sexual satisfaction
CARLOTTESVILLE, Va., Feb. 9, 2023 /PRNewswire/ -- Many people enter into marriage seeking heightened levels of intimacy, communication and togetherness but struggle to keep the fires burning in their relationship. A new report from the National Marriage Project and the Wheatley Institute found that there may be a simple way to help keep your marriage strong: date nights.
In the second edition of the report entitled, "The Date Night Opportunity," married couples across the United States were surveyed about their date night frequency and only about half of couples (48%) reported that they go on regular date nights. The report also found that those couples who participate in regular date nights at least of at least one or two times a month report greater levels of marital happiness, stability, and sexual satisfaction than those who don't.
"Couples who devote time specifically to dating one another at least once or twice a month are markedly more likely to report better relationship quality compared to couples who do not go on dates as often," said Jeffrey Dew, a fellow at the Wheatley Institute, and co-author of the report. "Because date nights seem to be valuable for couples, grassroots efforts to promote them around the nation may also foster higher-quality relationships and lower divorce rates in their sponsoring communities."
The report examined the links between one-on-one couple time and relationship quality with data from a new survey, "The State of Our Unions Survey," of 2,000 married men and women aged 18-55 in the United States. The survey was conducted by YouGov for the Institute for Family Studies and the Wheatley Institute in the Fall of 2022. Data from this study was used to determine 1 how date nights are linked to relationship quality, 2 whether one-on-one time is associated with lower divorce risks and 3 if date nights are tied to greater sexual satisfaction.
Among the report's key findings:
"Engaging in a regular date night may be particularly valuable for contemporary married men and women, allowing them to keep the romantic embers of their relationship burning, in a day and age where we expect more emotionally from our marriages," said Brad Wilcox, the Director of the National Marriage Project. "Date nights may be especially valuable in an era when married mothers and fathers devote so much time and attention to their children that they can end up neglecting their spouse."
The report highlights five ways date nights are likely to foster stronger marriages and relationships:
"Efforts to promote date nights should provide couples with free or inexpensive options to rekindle the romance in their lives. From date nights at the local drive-in to free date night events in communities across the United States, date-night initiatives ought to mindful of Americans of limited means," said Wilcox. "After all, the date-night opportunity should extend to Americans of all economic statuses."
For access to the full report, visit:
https://nationalmarriageproject.org/blog/resources/the-date-night-opportunity/
About the National Marriage Project
The National Marriage Project was founded in 1997 by Rutgers University Sociology Professor David Popenoe. From 1997 to the summer of 2009, it was housed at Rutgers University and was directed by Drs. Popenoe and Barbara Dafoe Whitehead. In the summer of 2009, the National Marriage Project moved to the University of Virginia, where it is now directed by Brad Wilcox, professor of sociology at the University of Virginia. The National Marriage Project (NMP) is a nonpartisan, nonsectarian, and interdisciplinary initiative located at the University of Virginia. The Project's mission is to provide research and analysis on the health of marriage in America, to analyze the social and cultural forces shaping contemporary marriage, and to identify strategies to increase marital quality and stability.
About the Wheatley Institute
The Wheatley Institute at Brigham Young University engages students, scholars, thought leaders, and the public in research-supported work that fortifies the core institutions of the family, religion, and constitutional government.
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